A Tanzanian Wedding
The very first time SOTV members visited Tanzania in 2002, we were invited to a wedding on our very first evening in Iringa. We didn't arrive in time to attend the wedding ceremony at the church, but we went to the dance and reception with a lot of curiosity and with the hope that we wouldn't make any social faux pas on our very first encounter with Tanzanians. It turned out to be a lot of fun, just like any wedding dance we would attend here. There was food, cold drinks, dancing, lots of relatives and people to meet. I remember that one of the dances was almost identical to "the chicken dance." I also remember how sober and serious, almost stern, the bring and groom appeared at the reception. Weren't they having fun? Was this an arranged marriage? Why weren't they smiling? We asked our hosts, and they told us this is the Tanzanian custom at weddings. All the guests are smiling and happy for the couple, but the bride and groom themselves must not sh